Showing posts with label get better. Show all posts
Showing posts with label get better. Show all posts

Thursday, 14 January 2010

Get Better Tip 4: Prepare for sleep





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Wednesday, 13 January 2010

Get Better Tip 3: Just say it



Saying no takes real guts these days. We live in a society where saying No has become so hostile. Saying no doesn't have to be rude at all. We have to weigh up what we can do and what we can't do. I always find that there is a lot on my plate. Hence why I'm Ms Clash. Sometimes instead of saying the obvious NO when someone wants to add more to my overspilling plate, I say Yes.
Do i do it, proberly but i pushed myself too hard on something that could of waited for another time, day or completed by someone else. It's not always that because you just dont have the time to do that particular thing. It's learning that to do things right and to a level of excellence rushing it won't produce that always.
Learn to say No as well if in 2009 you became the fall back on dude/chick. Yes you are reliable and love what you do but people should respect you enough to give you warning of work that needed your expert eye. Lastminute.com's (basically people who wait till the last minute to ask you) Yes if you can help them out. No when it because you feel guilty or  you have always become the person that picks up all the pieces.





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Tuesday, 12 January 2010

Get Better Tip 2: Cut back




In a world where social networking has become a major part of everyday life,  a social network detox is necessary. Not being continually logged into facebook chat, taking a few hours away from tweeting or twittering and not uploading pictures from last weekends bender. May actually give us all some free time to talk to each other or get on with  ‘REAL’ work and not totally loose the art of conversation.
Ahhh conversation where each person exchanges words that are not littered with LOL and LMAO. Yes words that express emotion, current activity and knowing that you can hold back a little mystery.
Now we love tweeting as much as the next person, but this year lets not be totally glued to our blackberry's checking what is happening in twitterdom (yes that what its called as its a little kingdom on its own..oh you get the picture) and start paying attention to what is happening in our own world. Friends we haven't spoke to in a while, a text we need to reply or a visit or meet up you need to schedule.
Also the side effects /bad habits are not worth the 24hrs a day we spend on those sites. You know the one like virtual stalking looking through friends of friends pictures. Looking at your EX's relationship status and feeling smug that they are still single. Coveting someone's over exposed life on Facebook can lead to you not living your own. Balance is key!

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Monday, 11 January 2010

Get Better Tip 1: GOAL!






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